“Integrity means always being honest, making sure you tell
the truth, so people can depend on whatever you say.” That song lyric has stuck
with me since I was a little kids. I have no clue what the cassette was from,
but it has always been in the back of my mind. Integrity is one of the few
things that must be held on to dearly in all aspects of our life. I think
integrity is directly tied to always being who you truly are, and not veering
away from that for any reason, and if we do that we will be rewarded.
As chairman of a Local School Council I am up for
re-election every two years. This means campaigning, speeches and generally
trying to prove to everyone that you can be trusted to best represent them. The
first time I was up for re-election (I had joined the council mid-term) I
listened to others and tried running on a “slate” against another group of
parents. I was lumped in with people that differed from me in ways I didn’t
like, but it is what I had been told would work. It didn’t I came in 7th,
one place off the board. I again was added mid-term, but when election season
came up I was going to do things my way this time, and stay true to who I was.
Instead of running on a slate I actually helped every single candidate to have
the same amount of exposure, I even made us all candidate pins and a large
banner with everyone’s photo and statement on it. It worked. Not only was I
re-elected, 90% of the voters voted for me. This has happened multiple times
now, I am currently serving my 4th term, and I feel that it all happened
because I showed my true colors and earned the respect of the parents and even
my fellow candidates.
I can’t say this will happen all the time. People have the
right to make their own decisions. But, I do know that when I did it my way the
second time around, I felt better about myself, and would have even if I had
lost.
I also remember the lyrics from that integrity song from when I was a little girl. "Integrity means being fair in any situation, doing what is right in every part of your day" I have no idea what cassette it was either but it made an impact on me and my morals for the rest of my life. Those simple little lyrics are always there, like white noise in the background of my life, growing louder especially when circumstances surrounding a decision were based on a read from my moral compass. I truly believe that if you are always true to yourself and to who you are at your core, you will alyways find yourself exactly where you are meant to be.
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